what does a man seeking a woman think of her? part 1

the intrinsic pull toward having a companion is not a thing that one can deny, including me.
I went down that road at the very beginning state of shaping my individual character, say early 20s.
(it was terrifically enjoyable and it was when I got the barest inkling of what solace would be, though I did not take it).
in general, some men are seeking a "wife", some a "doll" and others either going after someone in between or not having made up their mind yet. this classification can be applicable to, say, 80 percent of men.
to my observations, I think most of the men seeking a relationship are actually being pulled by the intrinsic call to find someone besides themselves ( what's happening in practice is different from having a companion and is inferior), though this call might be totally vague to them.
I'm not gonna take a dim view of it or condemn it, I'm just saying how strong this pull I see from where I'm standing. actually I cut men some slacks here.

next major movement

what's your prognostication of the next major fight in the world?

a war between superpowers?

war between Jews+Christians and Muslims?

or just a virus will come like Corona and a major portion of people will die?

my thought?

I think there will be a fight between classes of people in all places of the world.

wouldn't you be happier

the best thing that may ever happen to a person is that he or she can feel the God better than before.

good for all

the best service one can ever do the society is to become a better person just for itself.

know it

be confident that there will be another way.

there is always another way.

choice is only the sign

on the journey of your life the distance you travel, from the person you were at born to the person you have become at death, is measured and then you will be rewarded or punished.

the direction you choose is the key of course.

but,

never think that if you got nothing compared to other people in the sense of materials while you have made efforts you will not be rewarded greatly.

remember what is gonna be measured: effort  x  direction.

?if not what's the use

are dreams meant to be taken seriously?

the greatest sin ever

every person has some kind of a burden to bear in their life

though sometimes the burden is breaking the person's back it is to teach something; something specifically designed for that person in order that the person finds their way up =)

so, I'm neither in favor of removing the burden nor lightening it

the only thing needed here is understanding of 1. it is necessary 2. how to deal with it

so, I like to see the way of bearing the burden is getting enlightened for each person

this is the job of the next envoy if there would be any!

and that's why the only deadly sin in early Christianity was acedia; unfortunately the whole philosophy has changed during the time

because in acedia the person is not gonna bear the burden, while they may not commit any of the known sins.

و به کدام رو؟

و اهجرهم هجرا جمیلا

اگه این «جملیا» توش نبود...

با این کلمه مقیدت کرده که نه هر هجرتی بلکه هجرتی جمیل

نکته خارجکی،

عاغایون تو این مملکت همیشه میگن فلان کار باید انجام بشه (بگذریم که اصن کار رو انجام نمیدن) اما هیچ وقت نمیگن چطور باید انجام بشه

در حالیکه چطور انجام شدن یک فعل ملاک اصلی باید باشه

و تعریف چطور انجام شدن فعل میتونه بسیار مشکل‌تر از انجام خود فعل باشه

همه افراد در هر سلسله مراتبی که در اجرای فعل نقش دارن باید مشرف به چگونه انجام دادن کار در مقیاس خودشون باشن و چطور انجام شدن کار در مقیاس ماکرو هم باید تعریف شده باشه

اینجا نقش کل افراد، از مدیر گرفته تا مهندس تا کارگر مشخصه

کامپیوتر همینطوره. شما نمیتونی یه کامپیوتری پیدا کنی که وقتی یک فعل بهش سپرده میشه که پردازش کنه کل اجزای مرتبط در راستای پردازش اون فعل به کار گرفته نشن و هر جزئی که در درگیر کار هستش به صفر تا صد کل کار در مقیاس خودش مشرفه و...

فلذا اینکه میگم پیشرفت در علم کامپیوتر بازخوردش به مهندسی جامعه برخواهد گشت پربیجا نگفتم =))

بهرحال،

ایده‌آله، نه؟

خب سوال پیش میاد که اگه ایده‌آل هدف غایی نباشه پس چی باشه؟ 

لااقل به سمت ایده‌آل حرکت کنیم حتی اگه بهش دست پیدا نکنیم.

خواه ناخواه هم به سمت ایده‌آل در حرکتیم؛ نوچ؟

the peril of music is greater than alcohol

after all I have come to this conclusion that music is highly dangerous

you may have found this so far but if you haven't already, you are in the great danger of loosing your specific future to a stereotype and boring future 

the relationship neither is simple nor complex just needs to be unbiased and then compare your feelings before and after listening to a music and then judge which of the feelings makes you more "you" in the sense of your ambitions and goals

listening to music for almost all of us is like getting on a balloon in an unknown weather condition!!! which means it gets you everywhere it's meant to! not where YOU want to! it is radically different from flying on an airplane or riding a car since these vehicles get you where you want.

my advice? 

-be careful in your choice of music (SERIOUSLY)

technology is in its summit

so, we're entangled in sinus waves

anything inside us, around us and maybe we ourselves are moving on sinus waves

consider two moods happiness and unhappiness

let h=1 and uh=-1 when happiness occurs and let h=-1 and uh=1 when unhappiness occurs

see when you are happy, the unhappiness goes down to its nadir and vice versa... this is a sinus wave for two moods.

as we are in an era of post modernism in which technology is at the top we can say that other things opposed to technology are in their nadir such as poem, art, etc.

do you think technology lasts at the top forever?

the more important question is, when technology gets down off the high horse what type of art, poem and culture we should expect to see!

complexity and reality

never thought to say this but I think it's real and I'm bereft of hope

who ever thought?

by the way, am I conceding or confessing or admitting!

for, 

-if I'm confessing it means I'd been bereft of hope and I've been denying it

-if I'm admitting it means I've recently lost my hope and have had the courage to accept it

-if I'm conceding - it is different and - it means I still have hope since I'm unwillingly saying that!

how to slay world

world neither is gonna change in your favor 

nor you can change it to your favor

but you can tame it

how?=)

you must adapt

that's all.

when you adapt to it, it gives you a nice ride.