are you up

what about tough times?

are they gonna end?

do you think there will be a point in your life at which tough times are finally behind you?

me?

I don't have a simple yes or no answer.

I say yes there will be such a point but only for those who stop trying.

and I say no there won't be such a point but only for those who are not gonna fall asleep.

خرج کن

فکر کن دکتر بهت گفته فقط یک ماه دیگه زنده می‌مونی،

در این صورت

با مردم چطور رفتار میکنی؟

رفتارت فرق میکنه، نه؟

سوال اینه: چه ضمانتی هست که بیشتر از یک ماه دیگه زنده می‌مونی؟

یادم بمونه که دل جای انبار کردن محبت نیست، جای توسعه محبته.

what does a man seeking a woman think of her? part 2

our response to intrinsic calls is not limited to finding a companion and although we always contemplate on our next act most of the time we get pulled by our needs resulting compulsive acts!
take a look at your life, for example, how many decisions have you made so far? what percent of them were made without the slightest pull from your intrinsic needs?
again, I'm not disapproving. I'm the one who has done almost everything in favor of intrinsic values; based on his own view.
let me ask you another question: what does make you happy when you're in the death bed? and let me guess: "results". if you see results in your lived life at the time of death you embrace the soil with happiness; and vice versa.
that question was the introduction to this one: how are you gonna evaluate the results? isn't it based on what you have learned in your life; upon the foundation made by your family in your early life?
see we get restricted to a lifestyle which makes our destiny and at the end we analyze and score our effort based on the values defined by that lifestyle which is in turn a web of decisions and actions. 

and you may guess what percent of this web are made because of intrinsic pulls.

to be continued...

what does a man seeking a woman think of her? part 1

the intrinsic pull toward having a companion is not a thing that one can deny, including me.
I went down that road at the very beginning state of shaping my individual character, say early 20s.
(it was terrifically enjoyable and it was when I got the barest inkling of what solace would be, though I did not take it).
in general, some men are seeking a "wife", some a "doll" and others either going after someone in between or not having made up their mind yet. this classification can be applicable to, say, 80 percent of men.
to my observations, I think most of the men seeking a relationship are actually being pulled by the intrinsic call to find someone besides themselves ( what's happening in practice is different from having a companion and is inferior), though this call might be totally vague to them.
I'm not gonna take a dim view of it or condemn it, I'm just saying how strong this pull I see from where I'm standing. actually I cut men some slacks here.

next major movement

what's your prognostication of the next major fight in the world?

a war between superpowers?

war between Jews+Christians and Muslims?

or just a virus will come like Corona and a major portion of people will die?

my thought?

I think there will be a fight between classes of people in all places of the world.