what does a man seeking a woman think of her? part 2

our response to intrinsic calls is not limited to finding a companion and although we always contemplate on our next act most of the time we get pulled by our needs resulting compulsive acts!
take a look at your life, for example, how many decisions have you made so far? what percent of them were made without the slightest pull from your intrinsic needs?
again, I'm not disapproving. I'm the one who has done almost everything in favor of intrinsic values; based on his own view.
let me ask you another question: what does make you happy when you're in the death bed? and let me guess: "results". if you see results in your lived life at the time of death you embrace the soil with happiness; and vice versa.
that question was the introduction to this one: how are you gonna evaluate the results? isn't it based on what you have learned in your life; upon the foundation made by your family in your early life?
see we get restricted to a lifestyle which makes our destiny and at the end we analyze and score our effort based on the values defined by that lifestyle which is in turn a web of decisions and actions. 

and you may guess what percent of this web are made because of intrinsic pulls.

to be continued...